Sometimes you just can’t survive by yourself.
I thought about that this morning. I was inspired by the U2 song that this post is named for. People are growing more and more independent, but yet, bonding with other living creatures is part of who we are.
It’s a bit of a paradox! On one hand, you’ve got a need to be different and to break loose. On the other, you’ve got an inner need to be close to people. I’m not just talking about romantics here, either. I really feel that your friends are the family you get to choose in life. The people you associate with reflect much about your own personality.
I won’t exclude romantic relationships here, though. Out of all the instincts that drive humans to bond with one another, surely the need to love and be loved is the strongest. There’s nothing quite like loving every single part of someone, and knowing that they love you for all of your own flaunts and flaws in return. 
All I know is this: We live in a big world, full of joys and sorrows. There’s a lot that’s ugly out there. But there are many more beautiful pieces, if only you take the time to seek them out.
And it’s always better to share this crazy journey we call “Life” with someone; the path can get mighty lonely if you choose to try and make it on your own.
–H. “Shared sorrow is half sorrow; shared joy is double joy.” (Proverb)
